LIFE AT 40+

I have learned that what we think life is as what we experience and there are many aspects of this at many places with many changes.

I have lived whole of my life in INDIA and by the time you have spent 40 years you get into a specific mold and same happened with me though I don't have the view point matching with that mold but i still got into it because the environment get you that. The best part is that you don't want it, want to revolt but still follow and do that only. I know THAT and MOLD is not making any sense because all this is nonsense. We are a single unit on this EARTH but we add too many subjective in life. Please remember that we have been told life is all about subjective and not objectives. Unfortunately what are subjective is taught to us from day one of life as OBJECTIVE OF LIFE. 

We get wrapped in subjects and start running a mechanized life... after some time of life at the juncture of 40 I realize that all that we have woven around us and all that we have done till today is holding my life and does not add any value or much value. That is when we face crises of life and have a tussle and self realization start setting in, but know those subjective woven webs hold you from doing anything differently as your OBJECTIVE and any push and pull will hurt you mentally and physically so you let go and same subjective drive as OBJECTIVE and starts running again.

We need to realize that many will not be effected by you their in life or not and if they are affected that is because the subjective gains they had from you taken as OBJECTIVE. And as the requirement is subjective they will find or for sure they have to find the other sources. So nothing stops without us and life will continue and with different subjective source it may change the outlook to some level but ultimately it still remains subjective in nature.

So I am also in that same dilemma and want to break subjective but not able to, so you are not only wrong even I am also in same boat.

I have realised that we need to teach this at least as difference of subjective and OBJECTIVE of life to our next generation so that in time of 2-3 next generation this outlook changes. At no given time I say that you don't have soulmates and offsprings are just subjective, what I am saying is that they are part of the life to play certain roles in achieving our individual objectives. They may also add value to objective but they can't be objective of the whole surrounding.

I am not sure but the life I know of the environment around me, lives by dreaming of our own life objectives and normally without a souls as subjective attached to my subjective LIFE.